Surrogacy

Surrogate compensation is not a “one size fits all” paycheck. It will vary greatly depending on location, prior experience as a surrogate (first-time surrogates may have an advantage sometimes), and other personal factors such as carrying multiples (twins or more), necessity of a C-section, coverage of insurance costs, medical fees (IVF appointment and checkups), possible travel fees, coverage of maternity clothing, legal fees, potential lost income (when working is no more an option near the third trimester), etc.

A surrogate mother usually does not breastfeed, but there are exceptions.

• Emotional & legal boundaries – Breastfeeding may create an unintended emotional bond that the surrogacy contract usually intends to prevent.
• Intended parents’ role – Many intended mothers prefer to induce lactation or use donor milk.
• Colostrum feeding – In a number of cases, a surrogate will provide colostrum for early immunity.
• Pumping breast milk – In a number of cases, surrogates agree to pump milk for the baby.

A woman can typically be a surrogate 3-5 times, depending on medical guidelines and personal health. Fertility specialists often recommend a maximum of 5 pregnancies (including her own) to minimize health risks. Surrogacy agencies and fertility clinics also impose their own limits based on medical guidelines.

 

Common disqualifications for surrogacy:

Medical

• Age outside of 21-40 range
• Previous pregnancy complications
• Over 5 prior pregnancies or 3 C-sections
• BMI over 32
• Untreated or chronic health conditions (e.g. diabetes, high blood pressure, autoimmune diseases…)

Lifestyle

• Smoking and drug/alcohol use
• Criminal record or unstable living situation
• Absence of a support system

Legal

• Living in a state where surrogacy is illegal
• Not a U.S. citizen or permanent resident

 

Yes, becoming a surrogate carries risks, both medically and emotionally. This is not a light matter. You have to consider several aspects, including these:

Medical risks:

• Pregnancy Complications.
• Multiple Births
• C-Section Risks
• Hormonal Side Effects
• Long-Term Health Effects

Emotional & psychological risks:

• Emotional bonding with the baby
• Conflicts with intended parents
• Postpartum depression

Legal & financial risks

• Deficient legal protections
• Insurance complications

Your surrogacy agency will strive to give you a detailed account of the implications of becoming a surrogate before you decide to embark on this journey, and will work to set up the best possible contractual and financial conditions to ensure you are not subjected to hardship during and immediately after your pregnancy.