Versus IVF
Surrogacy, by definition, is the delivery of a baby via a surrogate.
It is an agreement between an intended parent (or parents) and a surrogate mother who will carry and deliver the baby. Although the surrogate mother is the one who experiences the pregnancy, the intended parent(s) are legally and genetically the parents of the child.
There are two main types of surrogacy
Traditional Surrogacy
Gestational Surrogacy
The surrogate is never genetically related to the baby. The egg is given by the mother (or an egg donor) and the sperm is given by the father (or a sperm donor) to create the embryo, and it is then transferred to the surrogate.
What is IVF?
IVF stands for “in vitro fertilization”. “In vitro” is Latin for “within the glass,” and has been adopted by the English language to mean “outside the living organism” or “outside the body”.
IVF therefore is the combination of an egg and sperm outside of the body, that is then transferred into the uterus for growth via pregnancy.
Is a surrogate cheaper than IVF?
Some intended parents also cover the cost of travel, maternity clothing, and other pregnancy-related expenses for the surrogate, depending on their prior agreements before the pregnancy.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is a Surrogacy Baby Biologically Related to a Surrogate Mother?
No. Via gestational surrogacy, the egg of the intended mother (or a donor) is combined with the sperm of the intended father (or a donor) and transferred to the surrogate mother for growth during pregnancy. Therefore, the surrogate has no genetic link to the child, and the baby will only resemble the intended parents (or donors of the egg and sperm). There is no transfer of DNA during pregnancy.
How Much Money Does a Surrogate Make?
Surrogate compensation is not a “one size fits all” paycheck. It will vary greatly depending on location, prior experience as a surrogate (first-time surrogates may have an advantage sometimes), and other personal factors such as carrying multiples (twins or more), necessity of a C-section, coverage of insurance costs, medical fees (IVF appointment and checkups), possible travel fees, coverage of maternity clothing, legal fees, potential lost income (when working is no more an option near the third trimester), etc.
Does a Surrogate Mother Breastfeed the Baby?
A surrogate mother usually does not breastfeed, but there are exceptions.
- Emotional & legal boundaries – Breastfeeding may create an unintended emotional bond that the surrogacy contract usually intends to prevent.
- Intended parents’ role – Many intended mothers prefer to induce lactation or use donor milk.
- Colostrum feeding – In a number of cases, a surrogate will provide colostrum for early immunity.
- Pumping breast milk – In a number of cases, surrogates agree to pump milk for the baby.
How Many Times Can A Person Be A Surrogate?
A woman can typically be a surrogate 3-5 times, depending on medical guidelines and personal health. Fertility specialists often recommend a maximum of 5 pregnancies (including her own) to minimize health risks. Surrogacy agencies and fertility clinics also impose their own limits based on medical guidelines.